In what order are benefits attained to be disbursed and why? E.g. From oneself to one’s family and one’s near ones? or from oneself to deserving ones. If it is from oneself to deserving ones what is one’s duty towards one’s family and near ones? Would you like if you do not get a job because other’s family members were around in-spite of you being more deserving? The obvious answer is “No”. Then what is one’s duty towards their family?